A Summer With The Abdulhadi's
Life is a series of choices, true.
Still, something’s in life are just given to us without us having a say on whether
or not to accept them. Family is one of those things. No man’s family is
perfect, none the less, I’m certain that min is perfectly imperfect.
Last summer was the exact opposite
of what we planned for. We all had our bags packed for the ultimate summer in
Canada when my father got a surprise call from his brother. After he hung up,
my dad rushed to get his laptop, cancelled our airline tickets, and booked new
ones to Jordan. He later explained that my cousin’s wedding got proponed. In
about a week, our bags were repacked and barely shut from the overflowing
dresses squeezed in them, and we were on our plane to Amman, Jordan.
On our flight, my sister and I had
a small conversation about how this might be one of the worst vacations we’ve
ever been through. We dreaded the idea of staying in the family house, a big
building where my uncle and his family, my aunt and her family, and my grandparents
lived at. Then we started recounting all the times we played with our cousins
when we were young, and pitied the people they must’ve become now that they’ve
grown up.
The
moment our plane landed, my father got a call from his big brother saying that
he, along with his wife, mother, father, sister and her daughter, and my other
uncle were all waiting for us outside. When we came out of the airport, my eyes
glistened in the sun as their silhouettes emerged from three cars. We were
greeted by warm hugs and welcomes. When we reached the house, we went upstairs
to pack only to see a yet bigger crowd of Abdulhadis waiting. We had a big fulfilling
Iftar meal and stayed up until Fajr. Before we went to sleep, my sister and I shared
a look; the summer seemed promising.
The
week before the wedding was eventful; we were the bride’s first cousins, so you
can only imagine all the things we had to finalize. My cousins and I spent
hours every day watching hair and makeup tutorials until we mastered our styles.
One day before the wedding, Abdullah, Abdurrahman, and Ahmed, the bride’s
brothers, decided they wanted to go out and vent – after all, their sister was
going to get married the next morning. My sister and I decided we wanted to tag
along, and together we went to the cinema. On our ride there, we talked about
everything we could possibly talk about. When we arrived, we took the movie
tickets and bought all the snacks we could lay our hands on.
The
wedding arrived. I woke up to a house of floating, restless human beings. The whole
place seemed like it was spinning, unfortunately. I had caught a horrid case of
food poisoning from the other night and my stomach wasn’t able to sustain even
water. I was so sick I had to go to the wedding in my pajamas and sneakers, and
I was huddled in my sweater the whole time. A whole week had passed, although I
was sick and pinned to the bed, it was surprisingly the best week of my vacation.
My grandmother took care of me, feeding
me herbs, my uncles took me to the hospital on regular basis, and my cousins
got me all I can possibly want.
The
rest of the trip was a blur of memories that are too precious to share. Everyone
was in tears when we had to leave. We had a big family breakfast where we
argued and laughed more than we did during the whole vacation. I felt happy,
with every true and genuine meaning the word can hold. When I look back at the
trip, I don’t remember the arguments my dad had with his brothers, or the
tension that was present sometimes between my mom and her mother-in-law. When I
look back at the trip, I remember the magnificent power that held the family
together despite these things. A family is truly where life begins, and love
never ends.
Aya Adel